Not in Our School!
We Fought for our Education
My name is Charlotte Smalls and I
am a Clinical Director in the juvenile
justice field. My sister was harassed
for almost two years by a star
athlete at our Oregon high school
before he raped her during a girl’s
basketball game the week before
Christmas vacation. My sister was
terrified after her rapist threatened
her life, so she reported the assault
to the school. Nevertheless, the
school sent her to the same lunch
period with the assailant and then
failed to protect her. That same day she was beaten up at school by a female
friend of the rapist. Both my sister and I endured threats. We stayed out of
school the rest of that week, and when we tried to return after vacation it was
too dangerous to continue going to school. My sister struggled a great deal as a
result of the assault. When we tried to get an education, the school’s response
created a living hell. The school even retaliated against staff who tried to support
our family.
No one ever mentioned our Title IX rights that were violated when the school
protected the rapist, but not my sister or me. We had no alternative but to study
at home. The star basketball assailant was only suspended for 2 days, even
though there was forensic evidence that he raped my sister. In addition to the
forensic evidence, the rapist admitted what he had done. The girl who beat up my
sister was expelled. The rapist is the one who should have been expelled, and theWe Fought for our Education
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As high school students plan for their new gender equality group, we watch them interview nationally recognized education, legal, and LGBTQ experts and learn from counselors, advocates, parents, and students. The video offers simple steps and engaging activities to make schools safer with equal learning spaces for all students.
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