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Monday, September 28, 2015

In this school, children will grow up believing bathrooms have no gender - Quartz

In this school, children will grow up believing bathrooms have no gender - Quartz:

In this school, children will grow up believing bathrooms have no gender



On her first day of Pre-K, my four-year-old daughter used a bathroom that was simply labeled “bathroom.” She will, I hope, grow up in a world where bathrooms—like people—no longer exist along a simple gender binary. If only every school could be this enlightened.

In a recent NPR interview, Anna Allanbrook, principal of the Brooklyn New School where my children attend, stated that because society has evolved to such a place where children should be allowed to use the bathroom of the gender that they identify with. This is a rather radical albeit simple way of looking at gender identity.

The issue came to a head in Brooklyn after a transgender New School student requested to use the boys’ bathroom. The New York City Department of Education actually already has its own transgender guidelines, guidelines that support the rights of student to use the bathroom of his or her choice. “I went to a meeting this summer where they were actually discussing this at a pretty high level in The Department of Education,” Allanbrook told Quartz. “I think it’s become an issue across the grades in the public schools in general, not just in the Brooklyn New School.”
Q, as the student is known, is now in the fourth grade, but he has known he was transgender for several years. Q’s mother, Francisca Montana, told Quartz that the role of the gendered bathroom has long been something of a barrier. “Since the second grade when he started transitioning, the bathroom has been a big deal,” she told Quartz. “He was wearing girls clothes, but he wanted to go to the boys bathroom, because he is a boy. But kids in the boys bathroom would say ‘what are you doing here?’ Sometimes he would pee on himself.”

Allanbrook knew that something had to be done. The school explored different options before ultimately deciding to take matters into its own hands. Allanbrook decided to change the way that incoming students were introduced to the bathrooms.

“It just made sense with our little ones [PreK and Kindergarten] from the start of the school year to just cover the sign that says boys and girls and just say bathroom,” she said. “And that’s what we did. My idea is to de-emphasize it and just say, okay these are the bathrooms.”

Already, the change has made a big difference in the life of Q, according to his mother. But as a parent of two Brooklyn New School children who do not identify as transgender, I too am grateful that my children have the opportunity to learn in such a welcoming and progressive environment. (This isn’t the case everywhere: Recently in Missouri atransgender student was met with backlash from fellow students after requesting to use the girls’ bathroom.)

Ultimately, a bathroom is a bathroom. There are stalls, which give students the privacy they need to do what they need to do. Plus, having a family bathroom in school teaches children to be respectful of one another. A child will learn that when a stall is locked they must wait their turn, regardless of the gender of the person inside it.

At the end of her first day, I asked my daughter if the class used the same bathroom. She nodded enthusiastically. “Girls and boys?” I In this school, children will grow up believing bathrooms have no gender - Quartz: