The Only Child. Spoiled? Lonely? Nope.
Chelsea Clinton, Cary Grant, Rudy Giuliani,
Robin Williams, Mahatma Ghandi & Frank Sinatra:
You're Not Alone
"What really changes, the fewer siblings we have,
is how we define family."
-- Susan NewmanRobin Williams, Mahatma Ghandi & Frank Sinatra:
You're Not Alone
"What really changes, the fewer siblings we have,
is how we define family."
Glad to know Time comes to the rescue with their upcoming cover story, "The Only Child Myth". There are far too many parents of onlies who should be spared from reciting their prepared litanies of how their child is not spoiled, lonely or set up for a dysfunctional adult life. Same goes for the onlies themselves . . . why do they have to prove that they aren't selfish when there are so many examples of overly-indulged, overly-needy kids who have siblings?
If you consider how "lonely" the supporting research was for this ongoing present day stereotyping and how long ago it was conducted:
Enter Toni Falbo:"The image of the lonely only was the work of one man, Granville Stanley Hall. About 120 years ago, Hall established one of the first American psychology-research labs. But what he is most known for today is supervising the 1896 study "Of Peculiar and Exceptional Children," which described a series of only-child oddballs as permanent misfits. For decades, academics and advice columnists alike disseminated his conclusion that an only child could not be expected to go through life with the same capacity for adjustment that children with siblings possessed."
"No one has done more to disprove Hall's stereotype than